tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29619669.post3670600421219827862..comments2023-08-14T04:36:06.787-07:00Comments on REVOLUTION IS NOT A DINNER PARTY: Planes, Trains, and AutomobilesSallySunshinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17417077309361828475noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29619669.post-80255416621294726822007-08-08T12:32:00.000-07:002007-08-08T12:32:00.000-07:00"You seem to write about that a lot, as if you rea..."You seem to write about that a lot, as if you really have a question about your own personal ethics. I mean you're asking a question that can only be answered by you. "<BR/><BR/>I have questioned my own personal ethics A LOT. But, self-acceptance is critical, I try hard not to judge myself so harshly anymore.SallySunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17417077309361828475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29619669.post-51491410228853574172007-08-07T14:13:00.000-07:002007-08-07T14:13:00.000-07:00I'm wondering, do you get caught up in the echoes ...I'm wondering, do you get caught up in the echoes of shame our society is throwing at you? You seem to write about that a lot, as if you really have a question about your own personal ethics. I mean you're asking a question that can only be answered by you.Martihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11135098390389506633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29619669.post-22578740154687639722007-08-07T12:28:00.000-07:002007-08-07T12:28:00.000-07:00Hi Miss Marti!Yes, honesty is the best policy. Le...Hi Miss Marti!<BR/><BR/>Yes, honesty is the best policy. Let'em know what's up because feelings get hurt when one partner expects more than the other. I've been both the user and the usee so I know how it goes. <BR/><BR/><BR/>To Cassandra:<BR/>"On the other hand...there are those time when you meet a person and feel a connection immediately, and in that case I think I'd be fine sleeping with them." <BR/><BR/>Indeed, that has happened to me many times. I too like to fuck my friends, as long as things don't get weird.SallySunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17417077309361828475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29619669.post-59377479251966824372007-08-06T22:44:00.000-07:002007-08-06T22:44:00.000-07:00Hmm. For me there needs to be an emotional attachm...Hmm. For me there needs to be an emotional attachment, but not in the romantic sense necessarily. What I mean is that I feel quite comfortable hooking up with people who I consider friends, which for me tends to translate to both a sense of being comfortable and able to be myself and a physical intimacy - I'm very huggy/kissy with people I like, regardless of gender. So, basically, I can have good sex with the same sort of people I can have fun doing anything else with on a regular basis. I can't have good esx with strangers - I've tried, doesn't work. <BR/>On the other hand...there are those time when you meet a person and feel a connection immediately, and in that case I think I'd be fine sleeping with them. Sadly that has never happened in a case where both parties were free to indulge in my case, but if it did I think I would be just fine with that.Cassandra Sayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07775317504418213521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29619669.post-1874303507930506532007-08-06T18:01:00.000-07:002007-08-06T18:01:00.000-07:00"In order to have sex (or good sex) with someone d..."In order to have sex (or good sex) with someone does an emotional attachment need to be present?"<BR/><BR/>For me personally, I have to have honesty. If it's a fuck, don't be afraid to call it a fuck. If two people come (or cum) together and get each other off, how is that a bad thing? The only problem I have is when there is confusion about what it is. If I think it's romantic sex, and you think it's fuck me and leave me sex, that's a really big problem. It's all about being clear.<BR/><BR/>Isn't it a wonderful thing to actually question everything? Makes for a much more controllable, rich life.Martihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11135098390389506633noreply@blogger.com